Joined: Thu Nov 24, 2011 12:56 am Posts: 155 Location: Alberta, Canada
Either way she was just trying to show you, and in turn she just ended up showing you she is controlling and crazy, good on your for getting your own bank account. Like I said before only meet in public if you want to, don't let her guilt you. When people show you who they are believe them.
I'd say, the most important question here is: Do you know what you want? I wouldn't answer the phone until you do. I'm doing the same thing with my family. I think it might be good to get your feelings and needs sorted before you talk with them.
Normally if this were a friend, a good email saying that you don't want to talk to them would be good. But this is family so it is tougher, I imagine that she is going to call your grandfather or someone else in the family that is close to you and cry and all of a sudden you will be flooded with phone calls asking, "Why are you being so mean to your mom. She's your MOM!"
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