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Unread postPosted: Thu Jan 14, 2016 1:58 am 
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Im 30, and just had my tubal 2 days ago. I have no kids and never want them. it was hard finding a GYN to help me. After going through 17 years of different birth control pill options, gradually everything about being a woman sexually was ruined. By 20 until now, no sex drive, loss of natural lubrication, monthly UTI's, very painful deep penetration (like hitting something). 10 years later my last resort was this tubal ligation. my body can't handle the BC, but i refuse to chance pregnancy. I am hoping my body will will act like a 30 year old's body should, and not exhibit menapause symptoms. Anyone who can share their story on sex life after their tubal (especially if it was painful before from BC) would be very helpful. Good and bad experiences welcome.


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Unread postPosted: Thu Aug 17, 2017 12:41 am 
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I'm sorry that no one has replied to this! I don't know if the late reply will help you, but maybe it can help others.
(Also, when I got my tubal, I lost an ovary with it. I was assured by my Gyno that "one was just as good as two" but was not convinced until hormone checks confirmed it. In addition, I am 40 years old. This is only my experience and opinion.)
While I've always been what you'd call sexually active, since my tubal, I've found myself becoming more extremely actively involved in my sex life. I'm not as worried about becoming pregnant, for one. That is way more freeing. I feel more in control. I am not "weighed down" by hormones, either.
I'm not married, but I'm with the same partner I've been with for many years. He is also feeling more free. That is important. We can feel free to take a whenever, wherever approach. And we do.
It has done absolute wonders for our sex life as a whole. Take heavy implications out of the picture and really, everything changes. I used birth control for years. It made me nuts and dry.
I had a mirena before, he could feel it, I could feel it. It was uncomfortable and painful at times.
All that is gone now.
There is literally nothing between us and pure, unadulterated good times.
Especially not children. Heh


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